I was shocked when I recently read that most people do not know their grandmother's maiden name. Part of that may be attributable to the fact that today families scatter, not necessarily finding employment in the community, or even in the same state, where they were raised. It remains customary for wives to take the surname of their husbands, but wives today are less likely to forego their given names to become a Mrs. John Jones rather than Mrs. Mary Jones, using their own given name. As an attorney, I sometimes had to prepare affidavits for women who had signed documents as Mrs. John Jones and who later needed to prove that Mary Jones was the one and only Mrs. John Jones, especially for women who survived their husbands and were left with no 'legal' name of their own.